Quiz 3Part 3: Compatibility AssessmentThis section helps you gauge how well your values, lifestyles, and goals align. Answer each question based on how you feel about your current relationship.How aligned are you and your partner on long-term life goals (e.g., marriage, children, career)?*A) We have a lot of discussions and are very aligned.B) We have different goals but are working on compromising.C) We’ve never really talked about it, but I think we might be okay.D) We have conflicting goals and it’s a major issue.How much do you enjoy spending time together versus having alone time?*A) I enjoy spending as much time as possible together.B) I need a lot of alone time, but I appreciate the time we spend together.C) We have a healthy balance between together time and alone time.D) I prefer a lot of alone time, and sometimes I feel overwhelmed when we’re together too much.Do you and your partner generally have similar interests (e.g., hobbies, music, lifestyle)?*A) Yes, we share almost all of the same interests.B) We have a few common interests, but we respect each other’s differences.C) We have very different interests, but we make it work.D) We have very few shared interests, and this is a constant source of tension.How comfortable are you discussing sensitive topics (e.g., finances, personal challenges)?*A) Very comfortable, we’re open about everything.B) We’re getting better, but some topics are still difficult.C) We avoid discussing sensitive topics as much as possible.D) We don’t discuss sensitive topics, and it creates tension.How do you handle disagreements with your partner?A) We talk it out calmly and find solutions together.B) We argue sometimes but always make up.C) We tend to avoid discussing issues to prevent arguments.D) We argue frequently, and it’s difficult to resolve conflicts.How aligned are your financial habits and values?A) We have very similar financial habits and goals.B) We have different spending habits, but we’re working on a compromise.C) We don’t discuss money much, but it hasn’t been a big issue.D) We have very different financial priorities, which causes stress.How well do you and your partner support each other’s ambitions and personal growth?A) We fully support and encourage each other’s dreams.B) We support each other, but sometimes we struggle with understanding each other’s goals.C) We focus mostly on our own paths and don’t discuss this much.D) Our ambitions sometimes clash, creating tension.How do you feel about your level of emotional intimacy?A) We are deeply connected emotionally.B) We are emotionally close, but sometimes struggle to express feelings.C) We care about each other but don’t always share our emotions.D) I feel emotionally distant from my partner.How do you and your partner spend quality time together?A) We prioritize and plan quality time regularly.B) We try to spend time together but sometimes get busy.C) We don’t spend much focused time together.D) We rarely do activities together that feel meaningful.How do you and your partner approach decision-making in the relationship?A) We make decisions together and consider each other’s opinions.B) We compromise when we have different opinions.C) One of us usually makes most of the decisions.D) We struggle with making decisions together.How well do you handle stress as a couple?A) We support each other through stressful times.B) We try to help each other but sometimes struggle.C) We deal with stress individually, without much discussion.D) Stress often leads to conflicts in our relationship.How similar are your religious or spiritual beliefs?A) We share the same beliefs and values.B) We have some differences, but we respect each other’s views.C) Our beliefs are quite different, but we don’t let it affect us much.D) Our differences in belief create challenges in our relationship.How do you and your partner handle socializing with friends and family?A) We enjoy socializing together and support each other’s relationships.B) We have different social habits, but we try to respect them.C) We tend to do social activities separately.D) We often disagree about time spent with family and friends.How similar are your views on parenting and family life?A) We share the same views on family and parenting.B) We have some differences but are open to discussing them.C) We haven’t really talked about it yet.D) We have opposing views on family life, which causes tension.How do you and your partner express love and affection?A) We have similar ways of showing love and affection.B) We express love differently, but we try to understand each other’s needs.C) We struggle to meet each other’s expectations in expressing love.D) We often feel disconnected when it comes to affection.How comfortable are you being completely yourself around your partner?A) Completely comfortable—I don’t feel the need to hide anything.B) Mostly comfortable, but I hold back in certain situations.C) I sometimes feel like I need to change to please my partner.D) I feel like I have to act differently around my partner.How do you feel about your levels of physical intimacy?A) We are very satisfied with our physical connection.B) We are mostly satisfied but have some differences.C) We struggle with physical intimacy sometimes.D) We feel disconnected physically.How do you and your partner handle apologies and forgiveness?A) We communicate openly and apologize when needed.B) We work through issues but sometimes hold grudges.C) We struggle with apologies and moving on.D) We often stay stuck in unresolved conflicts.
